Yeah, no. I'm getting shouted down right now by a whole bunch of people over at havoc's journal, and I'm pretty much actually physically shaking right now and I'm going to go cry in the bathroom in a sec.

And given the comment below me, I'm thinking that there isn't a happy medium. Or there isn't one that would be respected by anyone. Which makes me sad? But there it is.

I don't want to hold you guys back with my ridiculousness, so I think you should probably just ignore me and just carry on, and I can come in and be your black girls 101 person whenever you need one to make up for it.

sorry.